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Valuing Your People in Children's Ministry

Dear Children’s Ministry Leader,

I want you to ask yourself a question:

Do my volunteers feel valued?


Reasons why they should feel valued (as you contemplate all your efforts).


Do THEY FEEL valued?

My friends, in the realm of leadership, there is a truth that stands unwavering, regardless of the setting or context: the heart of leadership lies in knowing how to value people. When volunteers feel undervalued, a dark cloud can descend upon the holy work we're called to do. In the sacred journey of ministry, the role of our dedicated volunteers is immeasurable. We must never forget in our own exhaustion that they are the unsung heroes who work tirelessly behind the scenes to ensure the ministry thrives. Their dedication, passion, and commitment deserve not only acknowledgment but also heartfelt appreciation. This is why in this week’s blog post, I want to share with you seven tips to help you make those laboring alongside you feel genuinely valued and cherished, not only in your ministry but in your heart.

1. Express Gratitude Regularly

Gratitude is a powerful force that can transform any environment. Make it a habit to express your appreciation regularly. Thank your team for their hard work, dedication, and the sacrifices they make for the ministry CONSTANTLY. You’d be surprised how a simple "thank you" can go a long way in making them feel valued and even more surprised at how many leaders don’t do that. Do me a favor and don’t be one of those leaders. Learn how to say THANK YOU!

2. Recognize Their Contributions

Acknowledge the specific contributions of your team members. Celebrate their achievements, whether big or small. Highlight the success of your volunteers at staff meetings, in newsletters, or through public recognition during ministry events. When their efforts are recognized, it boosts morale and motivation. Vice versa, when volunteers feel undervalued, their morale plummets, and their level of engagement with their work diminishes. Over time they may become disheartened, disinterested, or even apathetic. This can lead to a decrease in productivity and effectiveness in carrying out the ministry's mission.

3. Encourage Open Communication

Create an environment where open and honest communication is not only encouraged but also expected. If you have an issue with criticism, Learn to get over yourself! Listen actively to the concerns of your volunteers, their ideas, and feedback. A listening and empathetic ear will serve you later. When your volunteers feel heard and valued, they become more engaged and committed to the ministry's goals.

4. Invest in Growth & Development

Support your volunteers’ growth and development. This is especially important for those whom you discern to have particular leadership abilities. Provide opportunities for training, education, and skill-building. When you invest in the growth of your people, you not only enhance their abilities but also show that you care about their long-term success in the ministry.

5. Offer Flexible Serving Arrangements

Recognize that your volunteers have personal lives and responsibilities outside of church. Whenever possible, offer flexible serving arrangements that accommodate their needs. This shows empathy and understanding, making them feel valued as individuals.

6. Foster a Positive Serving Environment

Create a positive serve environment that promotes collaboration, creativity, and a sense of belonging. Encourage teamwork and celebrate milestones together. When volunteers enjoy serving and feel a sense of camaraderie, they're more likely to feel valued and appreciated.

7. Support Their Well-Being

Prioritize the well-being of your team members. Offer resources for physical and mental health, and be mindful of their workloads. Ensure they have a healthy ministry-life balance. When volunteers feel supported in their overall well-being, they are more likely to be engaged and fulfilled in their roles.

Remember that children’s ministry is a team effort, and your volunteers are a vital part of that team. By implementing these tips, you not only make your volunteers feel valued but also cultivate an environment where they can thrive and contribute their best to the ministry's mission. Leaders who value people leave a lasting legacy. Their impact extends beyond their tenure, as they have inspired and empowered individuals to carry forward the mission and vision. They are remembered not only for what they achieved but also for the lives they touched and the leaders they nurtured. In the end, valuing people isn't just a leadership skill; it's a way of life. It's about recognizing the inherent worth and dignity of every individual and treating them with kindness, empathy, and respect. It's about seeing the potential in others and helping them realize it. It's about creating an environment where people can flourish and thrive.

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